
In what type of adoption do I specialize?
My
office works with all types of adoption:
- Independent
adoption where the birth mother personally selects the adoptive
parents through personal knowledge of them;
- Agency
Identified adoption where the birth mother or the adoptive
parents are working with a licensed adoption agency and the adoptive parents
are known or identified by the birth parents;
- Traditional
Agency adoption where the birth mother relinquishes her rights
to a licensed agency and has no personal knowledge of the adoptive parents.
What
is Open Adoption?
An
open adoption involves both birth parents and adoptive parents who meet prior
to the birth of the baby and set out the terms of the agreement directly,
usually with the assistance of the adoption attorney. Sometimes couples only
want contact prior to birth with no contact afterwards. Others may include
visitation after birth, depending upon the wishes of the parties.
How
long before I will be matched with a birth mother?
My
office has helped a couple in as short as four days; however, this is defintely
the exception. The average waiting time is generally from six weeks to one
year. Over 70% of the babies that are placed with our clients are located
through my networking methods. But I also instruct clients on how to be proactive
in doing their own networking. Many families who are proactive in networking
find that it speeds up the search process considerably and gives them more
control over the selection of a birth mother. However, I make sure I talk
to all birth parents as soon as possible after they are located. I've found,
it's better if I do all of the birth parent information intake. The adoptive
parents should just talk to the birth parents, not "interview" them.
Let's
talk costs.
I
work diligently to be fair to both birth parents and adoptive parents regarding
the costs of adoption. Generally, what is legally allowable depends upon the
laws of the state in which the adoption is finalized. Most often, there are
four items of expense:
1. Medical expenses if
no insurance or State Aid;
2. Living expenses of the
birth mother during her period of disability, if allowable by state law;
3. Legal fees;
4. Social service bureaucratic
expenses, i.e., homestudy and Court costs.
It's
my practice to discuss the total estimated costs with the adoptive parents
before any commitment is made between them and the birth parents.
Medical
tests.
I
strongly recommend to adoptive parents that every birth mother with whom they
choose to work be seen by a doctor who must conduct, at minimum, drug, alcohol
and HIV screens. In addition, I recommend a Hepatitis B antigen screen, BDRL
screen for syphilis and tests for anemia.
What
if we reside outside of the State of California?
You
will have to retain an attorney or agency in your home state, since in most
cases you will be adopting under the laws of the state in which you live.
Once you have an attorney or agency in your home state, you should feel free
to contact my office; I can locate a birth mother for you.
Membership
in Professional Organizations.
I
am a founding fellow of the Academy of California Adoption Lawyers (ACAL)
and a founding member of the American Academy of Adoption Attorneys (AAAA).
What
is different about my office?
I
believe, above all, that an adoption professional should be accessible to
both birth parents and adoptive parents, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. All
birth parents and adoptive parents get my home telephone number so that they
can contact me directly in the evening or on weekends. I personally handle
all adoption files in my office. Birth parents and adoptive parents do not
retain the Law Offices of David J. Radis. When you come to David J. Radis,
you get David J. Radis.
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